Is this ^^^^^how you are usually? If so do a 180 and be relaxed, let the chips fall where they may. I am the same way always thinking ahead but had to change that during this stich. let her come up with the plans. You are trying to take control of the sitch. I know how hard it is but let go, I like control too but it really feels ok to let God drive for once. April is far away we still have to fight the snow and who knows what else. If she goes for a D your L will take care of many of your concerns. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
