I feel for you. I am also hurting a lot from my H's sitch with OW and have a hard time dealing with my feelings. But I think that the more your spouse sees that it hurts you, the more they can blame you. It's just not productive.
--- 25 - Since you are posting here, I wanted to ask you a question and I know this board doesn't allow for personal messages.
You mentioned a few times in your own threads that you had a great marriage C during your situation. I am pretty positive that I am in the same metropolitan area as you were (are). I'd love to get the info of your C if you can recommend him / her.
Mine is not working out as well as I wished (and is not really pro-marriage) and I'd like to switch. I have a thread in newcomers.
Thanks and sorry for the hijack!! I just don't know how else to contact someone personally.
Rick Blackmon, PhD and I think he's either also a minister or some sort of preaching guy b/c he's got a following. He favors DBing and IF you want, he'll give you spiritual advice too.
818 area code if that helps you geographically.
I thought he was great, my h and he really connected too. He's a man's man. So that helped a lot. TELL him up front you'd strongly prefer saving the marriage so he knows where you want to go.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
