I know I need to believe the A will die...but this is where all the insecurities flood in. Is a short vacation with her really going to blow up the A?
No. In and of it self... no.
They start though to make deals "with god". If this... then I can leave. If that,... then I'd leave. It's a stair climb for them and I would view this vaca as a big poisoned food supply. They won't necessarily get "sick" right away,... but happens over time. Think long term... chess match. Not slam dunk as one would in a basketball game.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.