They really have very little idea of the damage they're doing... nor a good portion of the things they say.
Ex: My H, takes me out for my birthday in 2008. We sit down, order dinner, and he proceeds to want to discuss our separation agreement. I could have sliced him with a bloody steak knife. He swears to this day,... he didn't do that. Is shocked that he would do something like that. Other instances, where he did cold heartless stuff, and he has NO recollection of it at all.
Having a third party, LIKE a C... seems to work better. They hear things better coming from others.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
