DBing against OW...?????

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Hi,

I feel for you. I am also hurting a lot from my H's sitch with OW and have a hard time dealing with my feelings. But I think that the more your spouse sees that it hurts you, the more they can blame you. It's just not productive.

Yet, I know how hard it is to deal with a situation where you are not being respected, when your spouse is not looking out for the best interests of your kids and on top of that you have to deal with OW in a controlled manner.

Hang in there and be strong! You and your family deserve it!


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25 - Since you are posting here, I wanted to ask you a question and I know this board doesn't allow for personal messages.

You mentioned a few times in your own threads that you had a great marriage C during your situation. I am pretty positive that I am in the same metropolitan area as you were (are). I'd love to get the info of your C if you can recommend him / her.

Mine is not working out as well as I wished (and is not really pro-marriage) and I'd like to switch. I have a thread in newcomers.

Thanks and sorry for the hijack!! I just don't know how else to contact someone personally.