"He said, well... (and you could have knocked me over with a feather)... now that OW has a new job,... I'll be able to pick up daughter early and then you can meet her.
Wait... WHAT?!?! WTF?! *jaw drop* 5 days ago, I was NEVER going to meet his daughter. And suddenly... now the spin cycle is round and round, but he's back to what he was saying before my little visit. He's commenting on OW's melt downs, and how her job will have her unable to pick up daughter, spend adequate time with her etc."
OMFG. What is he thinking? What a tough sitch for you. Generally, it isn't fair to the kid to introduce a romantic P (which you still are) until the R is firmly on track. WTH knows in this sitch? Yipes.