Thanks for the tips! I have already put a filter on my e-mail but I didn't know you could block numbers on cell phones. I'll do some research into that. Thank you!

There are many reasons why I don't want to hear from him anymore. I don't like the person I was last year during those 8 months I was trying to save my marriage while he was cheating on me and treating me so terribly. I don't ever want to go back to that again. I'm also following through... I said there wasn't enough room for both me and his mistress... I asked him to choose and since he didn't get rid of her, I removed myself. He can't have us both.

I also know that nothing has changed with him. He's still lying to make himself look good. He told all his friends and colleagues that we divorced because I got this great new job that required me to travel and he just wanted to make happy. He was telling a mutual friend a few months ago that he has "started dating again," and has found a new girl. BS!! it's the same one! the one he cheating on me with.

Obviously I still have a lot of anger. I'm working on it, but the texts/e-mails don't help. Thanks for the advice again. I'll work on getting the number blocked.


When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.