P,
On your question of inviting her to some of your GAL activities, why not extend the invite? Sometimes she will say yes, and sometimes no, when I invited my s, most of the time she said yes, esp if the activities were ones she liked, like biking and hiking. Didnt want to be rude and exclude her.

Just my 2 cents,
Semper Fi Mac!

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!