TIMES THAT TRY MENS SOULS

[gunny]

Hello P,
This seemed to be the thoughts of most of the people in my group last night, mostly women, 3 men. My IC told me a couple of weeks ago that there is a current philosophy prevalent among IC'S that you marry the person you were supposed to marry(excluding abusive and addicted spouse sitch's), and that the reason you may not remain married is because you never were taught or learned the necessary life/relationship skills to help you through the inevitable changes that occur in a marriage over the years.

She said that in the past, when families were much more homogeneous and resided in the same geographic area, life experiences and wisdom garnered over generations was available for emulation, iow, examples of long lived marriages were there everyday.

Unfortunately, this is rarely the case today. Food for thought.

Thank you for posting