I hear you OT. My T told me that if I did the work and got our marriage back on track and H was interested in staying, I might be past the point where I want to stay. It may not be enough for me anymore. For me, in the middle of the ocean, I'm not thinking about whether the beach I arrive at has cold mojitos.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.