I screwed up. My H was trying to be nice and just didnt care. He sent me an email.
HUSBAND: Hello.
I'm not sure how much you've discussed your surgery (and recovery) with your doctor, but I asked around and the consensus is you're going to be "down" for a minimum of two weeks! No big deal on my part taking D, just wanted you to know. (Having her three weeks in a row, I may have to steal a few of your Xanax. LOL)
ME: Hi.
Please do not discuss my health issues with one you work with. I appreciate it. Actually, I will be down 3 weeks. My surgery is on the 15th and I will be in the hospital until the 16th unless something happens. If you can take Bella on the 15th and 16th and return her to me on the 17th, I appreciate.
Thanks
HUSBAND: Firstly, calm down. I didn't "discuss my health issues with one I work with". I asked 2 people who I know had hysterectomy's how long it took them to recuperate, that's all!
Secondly, your not understanding what I'm telling you. Please discuss this with your doctor/surgeon. There is NO WAY you are going to be in any shape to take care of Bella just 2 days after your surgery! I'm trying to help here.
ME: I am calm. I have discussed the recovery time with the doctors and they said 6 weeks. However, I told them there is no way.
I appreciate you wanting to help however; I do not want to interfere in your personal life. I will take care of her.
Thanks
HUSBAND: Fine.
ME: Look, I did not mean to pi55 you off. I just do not want to put you out. I know how stressed you get with her.
HUSBAND: It doesn't matter how stressed I get with her. If you can't do it, or you're going to rip open your stitches trying to do it, that's just stupid. But hey, I'm not pi55ed. Go for it.
