I think you may be getting caught up in wording, and not intent. Other than this board/forum, Things like OW, OP, OM, LBS, DS, DD, DH, DW etc are just not such common usage.
On one board H's are spoken of by "most" as My Sweetheart. Online, as always, lacks the facial expression, and verbal inflection to adequately color the words.
If you lived in my area of the world, you'd hear words like: the kidlettes, kids, (which I know makes some people see red), the munchins, the peanuts, -(which I actually still call one of my nephews).
To suggest I write/reference her as H's DD isn't something I see as necessary.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
