You have no control over this^^^^^^. I know this stinks but do you have any ideas what you want out of life? Eventually you will need to stop supporting her. She chose to leave right? I am by no means an expert but you need to start doing for You and stop worrying about W. Only you know when it will be time to really let go and move on. hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”