Sorry about your tough times Gunny. You most certainly are not alone. I spent my 1st Thanksgiving in 15+ years w/o my w and although I had a good time w/ family and friends it was still tough.
As far as love being a decision or feeling I can see it as both. I think Love is impossible to define and everyone has their own beliefs about what it entails. To me its a living thing that is constantly evolving. I believe 100% that people can fall back in love. And I'm not so sure us here on this board and our sitch's and our waw have actually fallen out of love. Their are other negative beliefs and dynamics like anger and resentment clouding many things. And I think we all should be commended for maintaing our loyalty and love to our waw's or wah's even when they are treating us like ****.
