"Seems to me that my H is happy with the new me but not happy enough to want be back. H is happy to have our Oh So Joyful Co-parenting Lives. Look how great this can be. Look how we can be friends and lead seperate lives."
BK- I am feeling the same way w/ my S and it is a tough spot to be in. Since we don't know what is to come I guess we just need to keep being the best we can be and hope for the best. Sorry I don't have any great words of wisdom but know you most certainly are not alone in dealing with these issues and I'm rooting for you.