Thanks Valeska19. I will check out the book.

Today is my first day of trying my new approach (less contact) and I am so scared that I will lose my husband forever if I make a mistake. My husband's confusion, confuses me. Sometimes I think things are improving and then next he is stone cold again and shuts me out completely and turns to the OW and the woman he is dating.


M:12yr
06/11:IDLYA
07/11:Moves out
08/11:PA disc(began in May)
09/11:Moves w OW
10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt
11&12/11: Touchngo w me
1/12: Comes home-PA resumes
2/12: PA disc; PA ends
Today: Piecing