I have not communicated to W for approaching 6 weeks now, but yesterday I emailed her about 4pm asking for her to have the kids over a couple of dates, which were in exchange for additional dates I had them earlier in the year. I also asked W about having the kids over the Christmas period.
W replied (which was immediate) stating that she had arranged to work that weekend, and then basically said she only wanted the kids on Dec 23, and then collect on 28 which is her usual day, so not wanting to see the kids on Christmas or Boxing Day!!!!
Kids are upset, but happy they will be at home with me.
I got another 2 1 line replies last night about the dates I wanted.
W called D14 last night, and told her I had emailed her, and then said again "dad won't speak to me"
This morning I noticed a message on my other cell phone, left yesterday lunchtime by W (before my email). D14 must have told W that I had deleted W off my main cell, that is why she contacted me on the other one (work cell) which she hasn't text to for over a year.
The message W left was "would you consider meeting up to talk please"
I sent W a letter through my solicitor last week basically saying file for divorce by the end of last week, otherwise I would, and I have received NOTHING back. D14 said W sounded upset when she spoke to W last Thursday.
I am not reading anything into this.
After everything which has happened, even the craziness, I am in a good place atm. I am OK with however this turns out and know I will be more than OK.. I am back to my old self, happy and content with things, and have liked the distance n/c has generated.
Ohh, what to do!!!!
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
