wife won't admit PA with OM

[25yearsmlc]

I am sure others will have a different take on this, but for ME, this is what I got from your post.


You still snoop. It hurts. You get confused and paralyzed and ask what to do, again.

So You ordered your wife to stay home and she "reluctantly" agreed to do so (I'm sure she was super happy about that. No resentment there....no backsliding there?)

How does that "victory" feel to you? Hollow?

It should, b/c you forced your will upon her some more. Either be open about your snooping and what you THINK it means and ask her outright,

or stop all the nonsense.

It's getting you nowhere fast.


What are your 180s again? B/C all I'm seeing is the same old Jake...