Since the last time I posted she called the OM the next day and talked for 15 minutes. There were no other communications to him since then until yesterday. I have not been snooping until a little bit tonight. I looked at our phone bill online and see that last night he had texted her and she called him and talked again for about 15 minutes.
Also last night my W was texting her female friend and was planning on going to get some coffee with her and hang out for a little bit. This is a new thing that she started right when she met the OM, and I know that sometimes she really did what she said and other times she just went to see the OM. I told my W that I didn't want her to go out last night and she reluctantly agreed. I don't know if my W called the OM before or after the coffee plans were cancelled but it's awfully suspicious. It seems pretty obvious that my W was going to see the OM... or its a trap to see if I'm snooping.
I don't want to admit to looking at the phone bill but I don't understand why in the world my W would still talk to the OM. How do I approach this?
Btw, I have been doing a lot of 180s and following the things we have been working on in MC.
