DBing against OW...?????

[imthemom]

To be honest, I dont really know if he is drinking or not..but just makeing an observation that this behavior is familiar a bit..I cant do anything about his drinking or not drinking and its doesnt effect me anymore. I will be aware though because i will not put my son in that situation again with him.

S14 had appt with C this evening..we spoke breifly before he saw S and C is concerned that S still does not know about OW and is bound to find out. He feels that I was put in a position to lie to my S but I told him I am in NO HURRY for him to find out. He Thinks H should tell S14 asap..before we run into them around town or S14 shows up at Hs house and she is there.
I really dont want him to know...im still pondering on my reasons for this but I know that he has sooo much going on right now that everyone is worried about him, and this will just be one more thing...also H is being so insensitive that Im afraid for how he will present it...
I also would like some advice on something..
ive asked this before but havent gotten alot of feed back on it...We have Co Parenting session on Wed. How do I combine "going dark" with that???!!! I really have no desire to discuss anything with him right now after this weekend...There IS no Co Parenting going on here...H didnt even show for S14s appt tonight and he is the one who scheduled it. And the fact that S14 could have been with me when i pulled up to the house and OW was there really makes me think...
any thoughts???
I AM really proud of myself with the internship..i worked hard going to night school to get this and im excited to be actually doing it now. and im hopeing its going to keep my mind busy...