Forward, slow as she goes

[WCW]

Set your boundaries, just make sure they are enforcable. When you want to leave the house without H, kindly say that you are leaving to do some errands and will be back in 4 hours. Don't give him the option to join you, and if he wants to let him know he is not welcome.

Stop worrying about what reaction will come from your H. Why would you care if he would pursue you or leave you alone? Just carve the single life you want to acheive.

If you don't want those hugs and kisses then set it up that you are unreachable for hugs and kisses. Just be careful what you wish for in case you get it.