It's written somewhere in the book...and I'm paraphrasing: become the person, that only an idiot wouldn't want to be with.
before i read further- and perhaps it's in this thread, I think the saying is
"Be a woman only a fool would leave"...
gives you something to live UP to, rather than merely avoid becoming...make sense?
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