So some VERY small Tiny microscopic baby steps. H texted me and ASKED if he could have our son thursday. I said yes, of course. But the fact that he actually asked instead of just said or demanded was a nice change. He's only spending 3 hours w/ him but thats typical. I offered him to come back to our house to have him here, and said that I had things to do, and that he could use the playroom to spend time w/ son. He said ok, cool. Thats also different. So minor changes in attitude.I told him that I would be keeping the baby home from daycare b/c he was sick and I was taking him to the dr, so he didnt have to pay half of that days fees. He said okay and offered to pay his copays w/ his hra card. I said thank you but the card was previously declined at the dr. office. He said he would look into it. He was nice but it dissturbed me that he didnt ask about our son actually being sick. That would be my only concern. Oh well, at least he is trying to be nice.This was over the weekend. Today is his 27th birthday. I called him and left him a message wishing him happy bday. He actually called me back and said thank you for wishing me a happy birthday. I was shocked. He also inquired about our sons dr. apt. When I called to give him the update he was nice, asked qustions, and didnt bring up any divorce stuff. No nagging to sign papers ect. So I guess baby steps.He is so confusing. Tonight I was going through boxes from our old place and found all the pics we used to have hanging on our wall. They were mostly of our wedding and honeymoon. It made me soooooo sad/depressed.
