Hi- Welcome, I am new to posting as well and learning how to navigate these new waters. I am reading a great book right now called The Solo Partner by Phil DeLuca. Basically states that change has to come from within, because you are the only one that you can change. I would highly recommend it- it gives how tos on things to change. It has a great section on the pursuer/distancer realtionship, which is my husband and I. I pursue, he distances. He has no need to change, because I will keep pursuing. It's only when I can stop pursuing and make changes in me, that he will see the need for him to change as well. Pray often- God has a plan in all of this. He will reveal it in his time, not ours.
Me:37 H:44 M:13 T:17 S:8 D:9 H living in spare bedroom since 9/5/11
