My old post was too large so starting a new thread.....so here I am. I see there is another abbey posting here now.
Since I last posted:
Went on my girls trip and didn't hire PI or interrogate spouse. DB coach advised that a friend seeks another friend with courage. I guess she was talking about me? I obsessed about H having 3 nights alone (without kids now in college) to do as he pleased. But in reality....he does that every day anyway. I'm sure he told me exactly what he wanted to and left out his favorite details.
Finally did see a doctor and got some happy pills. By golly I think they are starting to work. At least I don't obsess as much about H and his OW.
The whole family spent Thanksgiving week up near Yosemite. Had fun. H and I took a drive, got lost, but saw and learned about some amazing CA history. All in all...hanging in there. OH! Finally had tests and no STDS.
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Me - 49 H - 56 S - 23 D - 20 Married 25 years H moved out 10/11/13 H moved back in 10/13/13 H moved out again 8/1/14
