I agree that in any normal R the parents shouldn't matter this much..... I have come to accept that W's relationship with them is a bit...much... Definitely not healthy --- W played a huge part in this by telling MIL every problem we've had in the past decade plus.
You said: She's scared. She got caught up in the r with OW, I highly doubt she thought this through. She's starting to get hit with a little bit of reality... and no surprise... she is taking it out on you.
Yes, i think that is true also. Reality is hitting. I'm just afraid of the latest turn of attitude that seems to hint that I should be the one to leave.... Like I said I'm wondering if she's found a way to clandestinely refinance and lower the payment enough so she can stay here alone???? Abject terror is what I feel when I think of that --- I may be crazy, but I'm of the opinion that the one who initiates the end of R should be the one to move out.
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed
