Originally Posted By: NYCPeter
One thing that keeps coming up over and over - She does not love me, and she cannot regain that love. Not sure there is much I can do about that - except keep being the best person I can be.


Are you quoting your W or are you stating this as a fact? There might be some confusion in the house here as to what you meant to say.

In any case, if you are stating this to be "true," you should pop on over to the "Another Divorce Busted!" section of the forums. You'll find that MOST successful DB-ers had to hear their WAS' say things like "I've never loved you," "I'll never love you again," "Too little, too late," etc. This is merely how they feel RIGHT NOW (or just how they SAY they feel, too, even though they might be feeling something different deep down and don't want you to know about it). People change over time and circumstances, especially when it comes to relationships.


Us: mid-20s
T: 5.5 yrs
M: 2 yrs
S + OM: 6/21/11
Legally S'd: 9/9/11

In this life, you have a limited amount of mental currency. You get what you pay for, so spend it wisely.

So it goes. --Kurt Vonnegut