Bloody editor. Anyhow... the rest of my post...was going to read: Nudge, don't push. The OW will push. They are not in a frame of mind to deal with being pushed. Doesn't mean you can't do YOUR OWN THING, and he'll feel like he's being left behind. Just handle it with soft gloves. The patient and in it for the long haul will normally win.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.