Do I stay or do I go?

[Abbey]

FWIW, when I was keeping my H at bay in 2009, I kept saying, you can phone, but no face to face contact. He'd tell me it was me he wanted to be with etc. I'd just saying, You have work to do. You have things you have to *finish* first. You still have unfinished business you need to resolve.

It's how I plan to handle it again this time. My T agrees with me. Cut him right off, so he can live full tilt with the psycho. Matter of fact, I'll even limit the phone contact. There's a midway office where he can leave me my stuff and I can leave him his. There really will be little reason to see each other at all. Go play house with the psycho.