In my state it's pretty cut and dried. Everything is split 50/50 unless agreed upon beforehand by the parties. H was definitely trying to get me agree to take a lot less than the state allows. It ticked him off that I wasn't going to follow his edicts and instead would take what the state allocates. This is when the spew floodgates opened. Guess I'm still paying the consequence of not giving H what he wants.
I'm just going to have to buck up because I'm sure there's more to come before this gets any better.