Do I stay or do I go?

[anyhope]

Yes I agree with you both. The reason I even mentioned ow was for him to realize that he needs to end things with her first.. Now I didnt say he should and I don't think he got the point, but as it stands now.. He said he wants to try, meanwhile he still has ow in the background should I not be good enough after all no harm done as she's still there. So I will not ask him or tell him to do anything, because whatever he does he should the one doing it. There is no question in my mind that if we are to work on this ow has to be history which she's not as of yet.