W is asking if I am still willing to help her financially during the S/start of the D process. I don't mind paying household bills, etc., and kids' expenses, but what about things for her, is that something that should go by the wayside? (The background is that W told me during the early part of the S that she did not feel I supported her enough financially and she was not able to have nice things, clothing, etc., as a result.) Any thoughts are appreciated. Thanks.