Sandi2, cannot recall if I asked this in my last post, do you think there is a benefit to me telling my W that I would agree to a S where we would not live under the same roof to give her more space? She could stay in the house and feel what it is like to be D/share the kids and it would give her more of an opportunity to notice my changes and I could continue to work on GAL. Or, is this proposal a desperate move that will push her away? I am trying to find an alternative to the D process/giving up. Thank you.