Hey WAW Haven't heard from you in awhile... how are things? I hope you had a good Thanksgiving.
Your wife's behavior mirrors a little bit of my w. My guess is that means it a little bit of the standard "WAW script" we all have come to know.
I listened to a good sermon today about forgiveness.. and it said that it can't come without anger or without consequence. Not that we should act out in anger or that we should punish our spouse, but I think that if we AREN'T Angry for awhile... we can't get to a place of forgiveness.
Doing what's best for you is hard.. I completely know what you are feeling... but every action has a consequence. If you know in your heart that when you take care of you... you are doing it without punishing your wife... it'll be okay.
Sure she may get angry and she may say and do hurtful things? She's doing that now anyway.. and you aren't even provoking it.
My point - take care of you - cause no one else will. Trust that what you put out, you will receive.
You'll be taken care of.
((( )))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
