I know my H pretty well and if I dont contact him he wont contact me.
I have one of these too. I think they see it as a kindness.
Hopefully he will get to a place where he contacts D more. I have 2 D's and the eldest may text some with H, the youngest, much less. It's gotten to the point where they don't see him much at all either. That's their choice. Hard to watch. I'm hopeful that yours will make more of an effort after he gets some business taken care of.
