He told me he stills wants a divorce and he said it with a very cold look in his eyes.
Hopeful... is it really possible to tell someone this with a loving, warm, and affectionate look in one's eyes? I'm just sayin'...
Your going dark didn't cause him to sleep with a co-worker. He chose that for whatever reason he chose that.
If you were to get to the recon point you would need to go slow and outline specific goals and improvements you both need to make. Really... the rest of DR that we never get to since we're all running around the LRT hamster wheel.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD
