DG,
Glad you are doing better after the holiday. What you wrote pretty much summned up my feelings.
The FB thing. I have not been on my w's page for months, dont want to know what she is doing, it helps me with my detachment, and I dont want to be surprised with any revelations. Probably a good decision on your part to refrain from looking.

Havent been to Wisconsin since I did some training at Fort MCcoy back in the 90's. How far are you from there?
Enjoy the day!
Gunny

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!