Many thanks for the prayers! I hope all of my DB friends had a blessed Thanksgiving.
Things went very well this past week for me! While the kids were out of town at my parents, my husband and I had a wonderful time eating out, watching movies, shopping and just hanging out. Prayers were certainly felt as we traveled to my parents' home on Thursday. Everyone treated my husband with kindness and respect (including my Mother), and he seemed at ease. We came back home with the kids that evening and spent a couple of days just enjoying family and friend time and watching lots of football. It was one of our kiddos' birthday parties yesterday afternoon, so my family came in for that, and all was well (or even better!) then.
I am being very careful to continue DB'ing as things continue. Unlike times before, I am sticking with my changes. Yes, at times it's a challenge for me, but hey...this is about doing what WORKS! The longer I see it working for me and for us, the easier it becomes for me.
My husband continues to show more love and compassion toward me. He is back to being the man I married, doing nice things for me and, as he used to say, "putting me on a pedestal." Is that what I need in order to feel "loved"? No, but it's what he enjoys doing for me, so I have learned to show great appreciation for all of his acts of service and genuine thoughtfulness. In return, I am doing for him, and enjoying every moment of it. It feels good to be appreciated again.
I'm going to take some time away from the boards, but I want all my DB friends to know that I am praying for each of you and hoping for good things to happen in your personal lives, family lives and marriages. I am forever grateful for the guidance, advice and friendship I received here.
