I wish I knew more about what he likes about OW...I asked what he likes about himself when he is with her and he said he didn't know.
Don't even go there, because you will get an answer that is tainted by very rose colored glasses. What she has or doesn't have doesn't matter. (I got she'll never be you etc, fwiw).
Remember that this rollercoaster ride is about him. Has very little to do with you what so ever.
The fact that you're getting some interaction by him tells you one thing: You're ok just the way you are. He's having baby step intimacy talks with you. Just let him ride this out. And even if they go on vacation. Nothing like a good vacation to screw up a relationship. THIS thing is dying for him. Let it. Don't try to drive it.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
