Do I stay or do I go?

[Abbey]

Good for you. Proceed with caution. Resist the ultimatums at this point. Instead use words like: You have work you need to do. You have business you need to finish. Make the effort to not lump YOU in with the OW. He needs to finish one thing, before he starts another.

Chances are, he'll go back to her again for a bit. As stupid as this sounds... it's progress, because NOW,... NOW his brain is coming out of the fog a bit. The shine is coming off the penny.