I know about this. H's prize nutjob staged a crime against herself, took pictures of it, showed him, said she reported it to the police, and told him I did t. THANK GOD that is when he woke up.
I knew my H for 5 years....FIVE YEARS.... as friends. He dated one of my best friends, so I really know him and he really knows me. He was a good soul. I don't know how these wack-job excuses of a female soul even get their claws into men who seem so good.
We are in piecing now, but I still can't get my head around it.
I want to ask you, because our sitchs are so similar. Could you almost (or could) predict HOW their stuff was going to play out?
I mean when I look back, and go through my diary of things that happened (and even happened now)... I have this weird ability to know what lies are coming next. What nutter crisises she's going to claim next. Did you find you had any of that insight?
My H and I have been business partners for over 20 years. We were friends for 3 years we got together. (We were married to other people). He had a girlfriend before me. Considering some of the mountains we've climbed over the years, AND what we went through during the part 1 of this mess... I'm fairly certain how their "love nest" is going to play out.
Matter of fact, I'm predicting that what will happen is: he'll end up at my door again, crying the blues that she's nuts, that he's buying his time so he can break away from her and get custody of his daughter. Want an "affair" again. (which he said in a moment of weakness, was a probability).
It will be then that she will go off her rocker AGAIN. Won't be able to claim preg hormones for her fatal attraction actions.
Once her true colors show through... She will falsely claim she's preg again - excuse for her nutter behavior. She will threaten that he'll never see his daughter. He'll go back for a few weeks.
The next set of fights will be jockeying for position for control. THEN... once he pushes back and wants more time with his daughter, or goes for real legal joint custody. She'll accuse him of sexual abuse of one/all of her kids.
He has to hit bottom. As did your H.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
