MZ, I mentioned the book When Good People Have Affairs in my last posting on my sitch.
I'm going to check that book out. If nothing else, this whole mess has given me a good foundation a well read person.
As for the piecing. It's pre-peicing. I'm laying that foundation (similar to acting as if, nice etc) so that he'll have something to miss. And he will. Because I intend to cut him totally off after I leave.
He *was* a good person. And there's moments where he still is. But his head is firmly up his rear a lot too. We'll see.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
