Wii, I have a friend in New York who tried desperately to stay married -- like me. So when my drama began he helped me through a lot of stuff.

He told me a story similar to yours. He met someone through a Meetup group right before his divorce. They were together about 18 months and when that broke up his ex came over and they shared a bottle of wine.

I honestly can imagine XW doing that when that inevitably happens to me. She WANTS to be my friend. I know right now I wouldn't take it well.

Maybe some day.

Interesting day. D12 woke up sicker so D9 and I went to church. I then took D9 to a friend's house and texted XW asking if she'd take D9 tonight. I wanted to keep them separate so hopefully D9 doesn't get sick.

So it was just D12 and me tonight and she had lots of questions. She asked about Match, because I've left my screen up a couple of times, and I told her I've been out with three different women so far and really, really liked a fourth.

She was surprised. She knew I was doing lots of stuff when they weren't around, but she didn't think I'd gone out with anyone. I told her I wasn't going to introduce them to anyone until I was sure they were going to be around a while.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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