"How soon is too soon, though? I've been separated for nearly half a year now. When does a person "start back up"? (I'm asking out of curiosity, not to "question" you. I ask questions to answer my own.)"

I'm not an expert since I've not had to do this before but I believe the rule of thumb is 1 year of healing post divorce, for every 4 years of marriage. For you, I think 1 year of healing post divorce would be sufficient. Only you know when it is time. Just go in with your eyes wide open and know that the statistics for 2nd marriages are not very good.


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Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife