Yes the woman you love is in need... but she's in need because she put herself there! You owe her nothing as far as making this easy on her. There is a solution she can find if this gets too hard.
Those are words I need to remember. As far as her sleeping a few hours here its so S can spend as much time home as possible. He is most comfortable here, and sleeps best in his own bed, she said she doesnt mind waking up at 5 am to drive here before I go to work. Right now they are sleeping on a fould out couch in the living room and that house is very hectic from 2 am thru 7 am. I am sure things may change once she gets her living arrangements squared away (she did mention getting him his own bed for there).
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped