A Bklyn tale

[BklynMom]

We had another exchange later today when H brought the girls home. I was happy and positive. (Pretty easy since the girls were returning) Seemed like they all had a nice weekend together. H left a little teary eyed after some loving good byes from the girls.

Then a few hours later he sends this email

BM,
Had a great weekend with girls. Thank u.

I am now working the weekend of Dec. So I wont be back till my job is over on the 18th or 19th at this point. Should I bail on the race next weekend?? I'm all paid up race/flight/hotel but will eat it if you need me to.

This time in Atlanta has been extremely hard. I know its harder raising 2 kid, even little Angels like ours then any job could ever be, but I want you to know I intend on being a big part in our girls lives and am willing to do whatever is needed. I love them so much

In the same vain as raising the 2 is taxing, if you wanna take a vacation after I'm back, please let me know. I'd be happy to have the girls for a while and give you a much needed and deserved break. I think it could be good for all involved.

BM, I know this is so fing hard. I want very much for us to be friends thru this. I hold no grudge for the pain I've been in and can only dream you hold no grudge for the pain I've caused you.

I hope the line of communication can stay open. You have been amazing so far.

Be well

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Ugh. This totally supports my thoughts that H is just peachy keen on our split and being friendly co-parents.

I am sure the stuff about how hard it is to be a mom came from his mom & sister over the weekend.

Anyway I have no idea how to reply. Please any DBers, any advice will be greatly appreciated. I dont plan to rush a response but wait till tomorrow so I can really think about it and get some input. Thanks!