I agree with being very careful to jump back in...you are still very young and you really want a solid, devoted, moral man if you want to start a family. From all you have learned, you could be in a great place in a few months to start fresh with someone without all of this baggage!
M 44, H 46 D11, D9, D5 Married 12 years PA confirmed 9/2011 I filed 3/2012 H moved out 7/2012