Things are really going good with H and I. We are no longer doing the in house seperation thing. That lasted for 2 weeks. He has been super sweet, wanting to hold my hand all the time and cuddling with me at night. We have still not had any real relationship talk. I am not sure if we should rehash the past or just move forward. I still get upset when he goes out, but with trust broken that is going to take time to get comfortabke with. I am still living for me and back to doing things with my friends and myself. We are also continuing with theapy once a week. Sessions have been good, but that is the only time we relationship talk. So things are good but i feel like i am waiting for something to happen or for us to fall back into old patterns. I am rereading DR just to be sure i continue to stay focused.