MZ, I mentioned the book When Good People Have Affairs in my last posting on my sitch. The basic premise is that most people in affairs are good people, they just fell into a bad situation because they were missing or perceived they were missing something from their marriage.

I think a huge sign your husband is a good person is that he woke up. I'm glad you are piecing things back together! That makes me feel hopeful. Good luck to you!


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012