My W told me the same thing about me changing. She said she knew I was sincere about changing, but didn't want to take a risk of me reverting back and was scared of feeling like "walking on eggshells". We have to disregard what their fears are, because their fears will become our fears and we will fail. Failure is not an option to me. I don't know what to say about the afair, because I haven't been put into that sitch (yet, and hope I never do). I do think every day about what if she moved on to another guy and have those same thoughts, it only motivates me more to GALing and self improving.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
